How to have a Platonic Relationship while avoiding a romantic relationship


How to have a Platonic Relationship while avoiding a romantic relationship
1.Understand what you stand to lose by giving in to temptation, a really special friendship.
2.Never let the sexual tension build up.
3.Don’t create awkward sexual conversations or flirt while texting. Remember, it’s very easy for two people of opposite genders to get carried away in each other’s company.
4.Get familiar with each other’s touch. Don’t be soft and gentle when you touch your friend, be aggressive. Don’t touch softly on the arm, instead pat hard on the shoulder. And don’t graze your palm or linger your touch, be quick and firm when you touch your friend.
5.Make it very clear that you’re not interested in your friend sexually. Point out a few traits that your friend has and mention that you could never date someone like that. Even if it hurts, it makes it clear that both of you are going to stay as best friends.
6.Emphasize on how much the friendship matters to you every now and then to your friend.
7.Avoid weak moments of passion. Even if the spark is ignited in just one weak moment, it takes years to extinguish it. Sometimes, it never gets extinguished, it just stays hidden.
8.Don’t get addicted to each other. Have more friends of the opposite sex so you know how to handle yourself. Sometimes, it’s easy to get confused over your emotions if your relationship with your best friend is one of a kind to you.
9.Show off your bad side. When you get too familiar with someone and reveal your clumsy side, it can help them overlook you as a dating potential.
10.Talk about your crushes and your partner. A lot. If your platonic friend considers you as just a friend, they’d be more than happy to spend hours plotting ways to make your romantic life more interesting.
What if a mistake happens?
Now even if you’re cautious and carefully avoid any temptations with your platonic friend, things could slip out of control in a weak moment like a sleepover with a lot of booze. But that doesn’t mean you should end your friendship over it.
Instead, get over it. Mistakes happen all the time. Try to avoid it from happening again. Instead of pushing both of you further apart, it’ll bring both of you closer.
But if it these sexual accidents happens often, obviously both or one of you is interested in being more than just friends.
Is it worth fighting evolution?
Evolution hasn’t built guys and girls for friendships. Sometimes though, they can end up as friends and the relationship may work in your favor. But almost always, it never works. Try to hold on to the friendship, and if one of you do fall in love eventually, there’s nothing either of you can do about it. Either date each other or try to be friends again. Friendship can still outlive romance or sexual attraction if you choose to give it a chance.
But if nothing works, walk away and cherish all the years that both of you did share together as perfect platonic friends, even if one person may have had a hidden crush all along.
Are you really ready for a platonic relationship? Keep this guide on how to have a platonic relationship in mind, and avoid all temptations when you see them. And chances are, both of you may end up sharing a lasting and perfect platonic friendship.
http://www.lovepanky.com/my-life/better-life/how-to-have-a-platonic-relationship

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