reasons why most ladies end up remaining unmarried for life

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1. Many African ladies will end
up singles for life because of
media exposure- it is so
disheartening how a lady will
glue her eyes on a mobile
phone from morning to night,
only to raise it up to focus on
television to watch another
celebrity entertainment
channel. Tell me, what else
will dominate this lady’s
mindset aside how to live a
fake celebrity life being
promoted on television


2. Many African ladies now
dislike cooking and home
chores just because they had
been totally brainwashed by
movies showcasing men
playing the role of women in a
family, and due to excessive
exposure to modern media that
promotes gender-equality in a
destructive way that’s aimed
at destroying the unique
African family setting that
made our previous African
marriages everlasting and
envious to the westerns. Now,
with this attitude, how do you
expect a African man to desire
to marry when he knows he is
only buying more headache
and trouble than helper for
3. Excessive makeup turns
most decent and serious-
minded men off- if you have
observed, you will discover
that most men dislike
excessive makeup, and more
don’t even like it at all; reason
they often times discourage
their true loved ones to do
away with it cos it speaks ill of
a lady even though so many
men will applaud and
complement you for looking
like an Egyptian mummy. A
slight makeup is okay; but if
you are out for marriage, try
always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better
men, decent and serious-
minded, except you are still
living in your high school life
and not thinking towards
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4. Stop Giving Your Number
Out To Every Joystick & Harry!
No man would want to
propose marriage to a lady
whose phone is always talking
and laughing with un serious
calls. You may not be a
playgirl, but he would judge
you as one, and will likely flee
at the slightest chance or
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value
Into The Life Of Men You Date
or Are Dating- because your
best friend married without
contributing anything to the
man that finally married her,
doesn’t mean it will work for
you that way. Think, work
towards equipping yourself so
that you can be a value and
also add value to his life to
convince him that you are
worth committing to. Adding
value to his life isn’t by giving
him money, or material gifts,
nope….good counsels, being
his best friend, helping him
attain his goals in life, lending
him moral, mental and
spiritual support, and by not
just being a liability that only
bring requests and problems to
be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life-
how do you expect to find a
husband when you still allow
your clique of friends to be
dictating which man you meet
is worthy of your love and
which is not? When will you
wake up and face the fact that
those your best friends even
though they cherish you,
wouldn’t want you to marry
before them or to marry the
best man?
7. You Give Everything Out
During Dating- As a single
lady who has not been taken
to the altar, you need to
reserve some things for your
husband to be, especially your
body, respect it and preserve it
at all cost. In the past, men
rushed to marry to get certain
things or privileges they had
been constantly denied while
being single. Such privileges
include and not limited to:
constant sx and
companionship, good food and
tidied home, etc. But today, a
single man gets even the best
and of course more of constant
x, good food and excellent
home-keeping more than his
married counterparts, so tell
me how the hell you want him
to desire to marry you when
you have given him virtually
everything he desires from a
wife while being his girlfriend?
And the most painful part of it
all is that he knows that you
are prepared to cut down on
sx supply, cooking, home-
keeping, etc once he marries
you, so why would he not want
you to remain his girlfriend for
8. You Package Yourself
Wrongly- in your attempt to
look sexy, adorable and maybe
appealing to guys, you have
derailed from appealing to
appalling. In fact you look
more whorish than modest;
more unattractive than
attractive, and more disgusting
than adorable. Your dressing
style determines who gets
attracted to you most times. If
you dress high school, only
high school-thinking guys will
be attracted to you, and if you
dress excessively sexy and
provocative, only randy men
will come to you for urgent
satisfaction of their immediate
x urge, so don’t be fooled by
media hyping of certain kinds
of dressing, they are meant for
certain set of ladies you
wouldn’t like to be associated
with, be careful. Remember,
not all clothes that look sexy
are good for a seriously
searching for a soul mate
single lady.
9. You Lack Manners,
Character, Wisdom and Good
Home Upbringing- definitely,
your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’,
‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so
many men; both the good, and
the bad, but your inner beauty,
your character and manner are
the things that will determine
whether any of those men
would stay or run after
accomplishing their evil
missions. In order words, do
away with nagging, being
possessive, challenging with
men in negative ways, the
mentality of ‘what a man can
do a woman can do better’, a
lie devil has used to deceive
and destroy so many ladies
today, please do away with it.
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