golden thoughts to ponder upon

  1. If your child lies to you often, it is
    you over-react too harshly to their
    inappropriate behaviour.
  2. If your child is not taught to
    confide in
    you about their mistakes, you’ve lost
  3. If your child had poor self-esteem,
    it is
    because you advice them more than
    encourage them.
  4. If your child does not stand up for
    themselves, it is because from a
    young age
    you have disciplined them regularly
  5. If your child takes things that do
    belong to them, it is because when
    you buy
    them things, you don’t let them chose
    they want.
  6. If your child is cowardly, it is
    because you
    help them too quickly.
  7. If your child does not respect other
    people’s feelings, it is because
    instead of
    speaking to your child, you order and
    command them.
  8. If your child is too quick to anger, it
    because you give too much attention
    misbehaviour and you give little
    attention to
    good behaviour.
  9. If your child is excessively jealous,
    it is
    because you only congratulate them
    they successfully complete
    something and
    not when they improve at something
    even if
    they don’t successfully complete it.
  10. If your child intentionally disturbs
    you, it
    is because you are not physically
    affectionate enough.
  11. If your child is openly defied, it is
    because you openly threaten to do
    something but don’t follow through.
  12. If your child is secretive, it is
    they don’t trust that you won’t blow
    out of proportion.
  13. If your child talks back to you, it is
    because they watch you do it to
    others and
    think its normal behaviour.
  14. If your child doesn’t listen to you
    listens to others, it is because you are
    quick to make decisions.
  15. If your child rebels it is because
    know you care more about what
    think than what is right

written by amylia chy odo

Author: TheGoldendiamond

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