true love, sex and marriage

  1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if
    not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is
    the most powerful creative force given to man.
    When atomic power is used correctly it can
    create boundless energy; when it is used in
    the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same
    kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God
    to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in
    creating a deep companionship with one’s
    spouse and for procreation of the next
    generation. But if you play with this powerful
    force outside the bounds of marriage, it
    destroys you and those close to you.
  2. Sexual activity for young people arrests
    their psychological, social and academic
    development. Studies show that when young
    people engage in premarital sex, their
    academic performance declines and their
    social relationships with family and friends
    deteriorate. This is because adolescents are
    too immature to deal with the explosive sex
    drive and it tends to dominate their life.
  3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex
    outside of the bonds of marriage. The
    development of a fulfilling sex life needs the
    security and peace of the marriage bond.
    Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking
    around in hidden places dealing with the fear
    of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and
    feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors
    undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most
    especially for women.
  4. Virginity is to be given to the most
    important person in your life, the person you
    committed yourself to stay with forever in
    marriage. Your virginity is the most precious
    thing you have to give to your spouse. Once
    you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it
    back. Don’t lose something so precious in a
    thoughtless way.
  5. Those who engage in premarital sex run a
    high risk of contracting one of the many
    venereal diseases rampant today, as well as
    losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other
    common disfiguring diseases like herpes have
    no cure.
  6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms
    and many couples discover many years later
    that they became infertile because of these
    diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80%
    of today’s infertility is due to venereal
    diseases contracted before they married.
  7. The best and only method that guarantees
    100% against AIDS and other sexually
    transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to
    have sex and maintain fidelity in your
  8. Premarital sex breaks the 10
    Commandments given by God. The 10
    Commandments are given to man by God to
    make man happy. They are not outdated and
    they are not restrictive. If we follow these
    laws, we can create happy and prosperous
    lives. If we don’t follow them, we will pay a
    heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions,
    illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern
    men make a big mistake when they think that
    they can break these eternal laws and not
    suffer consequences.
  9. Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving
    illegitimate children. Numerous scientific
    studies show that the children of single
    mothers suffer psychologically and are less
    successful socially and academically than
    children from intact families. Above all,
    children need both their father and their
    mother. It is wrong to risk having children
    who will never have their father’s love,
    protection and care.
  10. If you date and you don’t have sex, you
    can forget about that relationship when you
    stop dating. But if you have sex with those
    you date and then break up, the nature of
    sexual involvement creates strong, often
    unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every
    relationship you break up where you had
    intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The
    psychological difficulties of these mini-
    divorces does damage to your character.
    Later, when you are married and go to bed
    with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant
    memories will accompany you.
    True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you,
    they will want the best for you. They will not
    want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted
    pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of
    premarital sex. They will want to experience
    love with you only in the very best place of all

– the love nest of marriage.