Having problems in life is normal but how badly or how good it will turn out to be depends on how you manage your problems. If you manage it effectively it will lead to positive outcomes but if you don’t the reverse will be the case. 5 ways of managing life problems positively includes 1.don’t underestimate your problem : the most common mistakes that humans make is underestimating their problems. it makes you more vulnerable and unprepared for the problem though you would have been up to the task up to the task if you had correctly estimated your problem. E.g i’m not too fat no need to worry about losing weight!. If you discover a problem start handling it immediately when it is still in trickles, dont wait for it to grow into a mighty flood because little drops of water makes a mighty ocean. 2.Exaggeration : although underestimating your problems is more dangerous but exaggerating is equally dangerous. That you lost your job doesn’t mean that you can’t get another, that you failed an exam doesn’t make you a fool, that you failed in a business venture doesn’t mean that you are a failure in life. According to God’spower excellence “BEING KNOCKED DOWN BY LIFE DOESN’T MAKE YOU A FAILURE BUT IF YOU REFUSE TO GET UP AND CONTINUE FIGHTING THEN YOU ARE DEFINITELY A FAILURE”.
- dont wait, patience is not a virtue if you sit back and wait for the problem to solve itself.
Another rule of managing life problems positively and and effectively is this “DONT GET TOO EMOTIONAL”. The less emotional you get the less disappointments you will encounter in life. Emotions like fear, doubt, hatred and anger will only compound your problems, try to avoid them. Another emotion that you should avoid is WORRY. worrying can not solve your problems it only makes your troubles double according to klind-d-drunk.
5 . change your mindset, pray because it works,calm down and think logically for possible solutions to your problem and work towards it.